“Success in dealing with people depends on a sympathetic grasp of the other person’s viewpoint.”

In this episode of The Business Book Club, we revisit one of the most influential personal development and leadership books of all time: How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. Since its first publication in 1936, this book has helped millions of people communicate more effectively, build stronger relationships, and lead with empathy and confidence.

 

Carnegie’s timeless principles focus on understanding human behaviour — recognising that people want to feel valued, respected, and heard. We explore his core lessons, including the power of genuine appreciation, the importance of listening over talking, and how influence comes not from authority, but from emotional intelligence and positive connection.

 

In our discussion, we break down how these principles can be applied in modern business: from leading teams to networking, negotiating, and building trust with clients. Even in a digital world, Carnegie’s ideas remain deeply relevant — because at the heart of every success, there is human connection.

Episode 47 - How to Win Friends & Influence People
 By Dale Carnagie

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About the Author

Dr. John Demartini is a renowned human behaviour specialist, educator, author, and founder of The Demartini Institute. With over four decades of research into human potential and performance, Dr. Demartini has developed a range of transformative methodologies that help individuals and organisations clarify purpose and maximise achievement. He has authored more than 40 books, including The Breakthrough Experience, and has been featured in The Secret and numerous international publications. His work blends psychology, philosophy, and practical tools to help people live inspired, values-aligned lives with meaning and productivity.

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“A foundational book for anyone seeking to inspire, communicate, or lead. Carnegie’s wisdom remains as fresh and essential today as it was nearly a century ago.”
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